Checklists
i was going through my documents folder this afternoon looking for something and i came across the checklists LP and i did a while back. i wonder if i did it right. i don’t even remember what site we found this one on. i said yes to activities that i have either done or would like to do and then rated them according to if i liked them or how interested i am in them. i suppose it would make it difficult because there’s no way to differentiate between things i’ve done and things i am interested in doing. What about things i’ve done and enjoyed but won’t be doing again for whatever reason? Yes/no answers don’t explain much. i guess that’s where discussion after completing the checklist comes in.
It’s kind of funny because i kind of get a kick out of comparing notes with LP on past things we have done and how we felt about it at the time. i mean, i’d like to go into detail! i don’t think She feels the same way though. i’ve never really had someone that i could talk about the gory details with. When i was married i think the ex liked to think that there had never been anyone else but him. He certainly wouldn’t have liked to hear that i may have enjoyed it more! LP doesn’t have that kind of fragile ego, so i don’t have to worry She is going to get pissed because i may have enjoyed something with someone before i even met Her. But still, it isn’t something we really talk about.
The idea occured to me to take my list and go through it, keep all the yes answers and mark them D for ’done that’ or W for ‘wanna do’ and then elaborate on their rating. What i liked about it, what i find interesting about it that sort of thing. Just for my own fun really.
There’s also the chance that some things may have changed since i last filled it out. i think there are some things that i put as a no or gave a low rating that might be marked differently now. i’m not sure. Might be interesting to redo it and see.
